*I'm just ranting based on what I've heard recently (like my friends etc.)*
It's alright if you are just simply, screwed up as long as it doesn't affect how other people feel/think/make them feel depressed.
Or at least, that's what I think.
Uurg. I don't know how to put this but seriously, the world's full of people with really screwed up notions/beliefs/ideals/whatever and when they try to impose all their screwed up shit onto others, that's when they screw other people up and it's just a vicious cycle. IMO.
Everyone who had their head/heart screwed will then think it's acceptable for them to do it to other people (Perhaps, as a form of protection for themselves?) and more people get hurt.
So yesterday, I was telling JR about this - About how I think the world's full of crazy people who makes others sad and that we must ensure that we stand outside this vicious cycle and not play a part in it. I don't want to be tainted by the ugly side of our society. >< It's true that there are people who don't exactly give a shit even after they've hurt you but I don't think we cannot make things any better by hating them/getting angry/trying to seek some sort of revenge/give them the same badass attitude they've given you.
I don't know. I don't waste time on all that. At most, I'll just rant on my blog then delete the post/rant to people/emo then I'll just leave it at that.
In fact, I think we should treat people with seriously bad attitudes or those who have hurt us, very. nicely. Not in a fake way of course. Get angry if you must but I just think it will not exactly get you anywhere. (And angry people tend to say or do the wrong things. You know how people act when they're not thinking~ Then you'll probably regret after that.) I always feel that everyone have their reasons for doing what they did, even if it meant hurting others. But I believe if we continue to be nice then they will realize it someday. It may not be a few days, or a few weeks or months but they'll realize it someday. If we treat them with hate and sarcasm then how will things even get any better.
Yesterday, my mum was ranting on about some colleague she dislikes at work because that colleague of hers is rude and pretty arrogant. And my mum was saying "Yeah. I really hate talking to her. She's got really poor manners so when she talked to me today, I didn't even bother looking at her and I just answered her while staring at the computer screen." -.-
I told my mum that she wasn't being any better by treating her colleague that way and she said "Why should I treat her well when she was being rude and disrespectful in the first place?"
SIGHS. I don't know. Everybody's all so into this.
Not trying to be saint right here but sometimes, we all ought to think about how our actions will actually leave an impact on other peoples' lives and how it reflects on us.
^^ I just found a quote which is pretty apt. And it justifies how I think things should actually be like.
Maybe I'm naive. or Ignorant and disillusioned.
